“It’s not that big a deal.” “It’s just another performance.” “It’s fine. I’ve done this before.”
There is something we do before a big performance that we almost never talk about. We make it smaller than it is. This is not carelessness. It is a very specific kind of preparation. And it costs more than it saves.
The Impostor Pattern Is Not a Mindset Problem
We have spent decades treating Impostor Syndrome as a thought that needs correcting. It is not a distorted thought. It is a physiological strategy that is working exactly as it was designed to work. This piece names what that means, and why it changes everything about how we work with it.